I brought my seedling tomato plants home only a few weeks back. I was very excited to venture into this brand new gardening experience and I have tenderly cared for my three plants.
Watering. Feeding. Supporting. Watching. Waiting.
On the contrary, I find myself utterly frustrated sometimes with the slowness of my personal growth...
Why am I not done yet?
As if I can just see beyond me: I know what I could be, who I could become, Who He has made me to be--- and yet it is frustratingly out of my reach. Beauty beyond my grasp---far down the path ahead.
Andrew Murray reminds me that humility is not something you possess. Instead, humility is something you become. Even the title of Murray's book says it all, "Humility: The Journey Toward Holiness".
A journey toward. A moving forward. A becoming. And, so it goes for love, faithfulness, selflessness, gentleness, patience, and joy. ...a becoming.
There aren't any "10-easy-steps" to be found here, to be sure.
But, I want to be done. I want to be complete and whole. And, I want to be perfect. What is it in me that longs so for perfection?
While snuggled into his gentle embrace, I asked my husband tonight, "I have asked Him (the Holy Spirit) to come in and take over! I have surrendered. I want Him to fill me and take over. Why hasn't He, yet!? Why hasn't He taken over me."
He responded tenderly, "He isn't done because He doesn't want to take you over. He wants to make you. He wants you to be you--- the very best version of you, Stephanie. And, that takes time."
Ah... humility isn't something I can get or possess. I can't not have it one day and then just get it the next day--a done deal or snap of the finger. It is something I become.
And, becoming takes time.
When I bought my tomato plants, they were in fact tomato plants. Although you wouldn't know it from the size, the leaves, or the look... they were indeed tomato plants. Or, at least, they were the raw material for the making of truly proper tomato plants. And, now they are becoming ---not yet there---becoming budding, thriving tomato plants. And, sometime soon, I hope, we shall actually see and enjoy tomatoes. Then, they will be.
Can I allow myself the same journey toward becoming the best version of myself--- fruitful and thriving---the beauty God intended me to be? Maybe someday soon we shall actually see and enjoy some humility--- I am hopeful! And, in the meantime, I need to water and feed, support and wait... watching. Hoping...