I can get pretty locked up in my head. My thoughts can be so busy, random, critical, and full-on. Through the years, I have become more and more aware of this buzzing reality that can be my brain... awareness has been key to freedom from it, for sure.
But, even attentiveness and practicing God's Presence, doesn't always stop the madness. I can go from peaceful knowledge of God's now Presence and, in the blink of an eye, I find myself lost again in the fast paced brain buzzing. Before I know it, I am locked in a cycle of hurried thinking--- way too much thinking and very unproductively.
I find that there are different ways or kinds of thought. This cycle of buzzing is not helpful, it is harmful thought. These busy, burdened and even berating thoughts are unproductive thinking. They feel more like chaos than order. They are filled with lies and falsehood instead of truth. And, often they cause anxiety, as opposed to peace. The enemies of my soul play a huge part in this battle--- the adversary and my flesh--- fighting against the love, joy, peace and patience of the Spirit.
I found myself in this very cycle this week. It doesn't really matter the topic or topics of thought--- it is just that my mind is bursting with unproductive and busy thoughts. Like Martha of old, I am "worried about a great many things".
Psalm 84 caught my attention on Wednesday... the whole of the Psalm. But, also one particular phrase jumped at me with clarity. "whose hearts are set on a pilgrimage...they go from strength to strength" (Psalm 84:5-7). The Psalmists are talking about the Presence of God. They are rejoicing in their experience of dwelling with Him--- or in Him, His temple.
In this Psalm, the Sons of Korah, are sharing about the blessedness ('esher'=happiness) that is with those who remain and abide in God. We know that, as His people, we are now His temple. He dwells within us through His Spirit! We, then, have this happiness always available to us. We can abide in His love. Always!
With the phrase "whose heart is set on pilgrimage" the Lord seemed to be reminding me that the direction I was pointed was important. A pilgrim is going somewhere. She is pointed in a very clear direction, with purpose in their journey. I could feel the gentle rebuke of God's heart... Where or to Whom is your heart, your mind and your soul pointed, Stephanie? Where is your mind headed?
In most cases, when my mind is buzzing with unproductive and unhelpful thought, I am most definitely pointed inward. I am looking at me... either in the negative, the positive, or just the practical... my eyes are downward or inward. If I am not inwardly focused, I am focused just on my immediate earthly reality: the very same "many things" that Martha was buzzing about. I am headed in a circular race to get the next thing done, to fix this or that, only to start over again to fix the next thing and do this or figure out that. It is a rat race in my head. My own personal torture device!
The old adage comes to mind: "Worry is like a rocking chair. You move but go nowhere."
It is good to look up and out. It is very good to stop--- to Sabbath ("to cease")---and look at Him. It is not only good, it is essential and life giving. I must stop the madness. Just cease. Just cease, sit, and ask myself, prayerfully, "What do you actually think?! What is true?" In response to this question, I wrote in my journal today: I think and know He is--- and then followed it with all that He is---all that is True about my amazing God and Savior.
He is righteous. He is good. He is loving. He is faithful. He is covenant and steadfast. He is wise. He is aware. He sees. He knows. He loves. He judges rightly. ... the list went on and on.
When I get locked in the hurried and heavy thinking of my running mind, this productive truth-thinking stabilizes me. His truth---who He is, and who I am because of Him--- is an anchor for my soul and most definitely for my mind. I can feel the order and equilibrium immediately. This is indeed my "one needful thing" (Luke 10:42). Every day. Every moment of every day.
"You will keep in perfect peace all whose thoughts are fixed on You!" (Isaiah 26:3)
"I count myself one of the number of those who write as they learn and learn as they write." ~St. Augustine
Friday, May 31, 2019
Thursday, May 23, 2019
Open My Eyes, Lord
I woke up two mornings ago with pain and a very swollen eye. No fun. It looked like I had been in a fight and lost! The quick jaunt to the optometrist confirmed that I have a few (significantly and deeply) blocked ducts with no apparent infection---at this point. So warm compress... and a few weeks... and it all should clear up.
Asking the Lord for insight into this, I feel led to pray... Lord, unblock and release us from the things that keep us from seeing Truth. Help me to see You, myself, and others truly. Help us to see rightly, Father! Open our eyes.
I can see right now. But, my vision is just slightly impaired by the swelling. The pain makes me want to close my eyes and stop looking. And, these ducts have been 'getting' blocked for weeks now---without my awareness and detection. My eyes were affected and "off" kilter before I even knew it.
How else, Lord, am I seeing impaired?
These prayers have prompted deep conviction in my own life. I know there are ways I see the Lord... ways I see the world... ways I see myself and ...ways I see others... ways I see wrongly and off-kilter. The eyes of my heart and my mind are blocked in some significant ways--as is true of us all. I need His purification and release. I need God's truth. I need Him to touch and heal those deep parts of me which are affecting my seeing---my heart-sight.
Scripture tells us to keep our eyes fixed on Jesus. The Word reminds us that fixed minds and hearts stayed on Him are at peace. When our hearts are steadfast on His Spirit and when we look at things that are of His Spirit, we will keep in step with the Spirit. When we see rightly, we can walk rightly. When we are facing or looking in the right direction, we will walk in the right direction. Right? Obviously!
So, today, I choose to settle into the reality of my blocked ducts. I will use it as a prayer trigger until the Lord sees fit to take it away. I pray for myself first... and then for those I love.... and then beyond. That the eyes of our hearts would be given light and wisdom to understand more Truth about who God is and who we are in His love (Ephesians 1:17-19) Would you join me in praying this, too?
Lord, let us see rightly!
Asking the Lord for insight into this, I feel led to pray... Lord, unblock and release us from the things that keep us from seeing Truth. Help me to see You, myself, and others truly. Help us to see rightly, Father! Open our eyes.
I can see right now. But, my vision is just slightly impaired by the swelling. The pain makes me want to close my eyes and stop looking. And, these ducts have been 'getting' blocked for weeks now---without my awareness and detection. My eyes were affected and "off" kilter before I even knew it.
How else, Lord, am I seeing impaired?
These prayers have prompted deep conviction in my own life. I know there are ways I see the Lord... ways I see the world... ways I see myself and ...ways I see others... ways I see wrongly and off-kilter. The eyes of my heart and my mind are blocked in some significant ways--as is true of us all. I need His purification and release. I need God's truth. I need Him to touch and heal those deep parts of me which are affecting my seeing---my heart-sight.
Scripture tells us to keep our eyes fixed on Jesus. The Word reminds us that fixed minds and hearts stayed on Him are at peace. When our hearts are steadfast on His Spirit and when we look at things that are of His Spirit, we will keep in step with the Spirit. When we see rightly, we can walk rightly. When we are facing or looking in the right direction, we will walk in the right direction. Right? Obviously!
So, today, I choose to settle into the reality of my blocked ducts. I will use it as a prayer trigger until the Lord sees fit to take it away. I pray for myself first... and then for those I love.... and then beyond. That the eyes of our hearts would be given light and wisdom to understand more Truth about who God is and who we are in His love (Ephesians 1:17-19) Would you join me in praying this, too?
Lord, let us see rightly!
Friday, May 17, 2019
Strength and Wisdom from Sorrow
My daughter wrote a stunning piece of spoken word. I would love for you to click on the link and listen to her reading it out... The truth in these words blessed my heart in a profound way. I share it with you with deep joy.
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The text of the spoken word:
When you look into a woman’s face
What do you see?
Sorrow.
It’s always there -
it’s what gives the waves to the ocean in her eyes,
The fire in the pit of her stomach,
The lines around her mouth,
and depth to her words.
Have you ever sat at the feet of a truly fierce woman:
Wearing truths she taught you to know;
just waiting, for the next pearl of wisdom to fall from her lips.
They splash onto those around her like tears.
Tears shed for the ruined and loved boy,
tears for the cherished and lost child,
tears for the battered and beautiful friend,
And hot wet burning tears for her own failures in grace.
These precious pearls were made through
the scratching of the sand of the world
That made wounds and scars on her heart.
That left their cutting mark, but were not felt in vain.
The laughter in the eyes of a child should be cherished.
Always.
for, the liquid sunlight dripping from their eyes will vanish in time.
But the laughter of a woman is stronger still.
For she has seen the inside of the darkness
and chosen to turn her eyes back to the sun;
Even when she does not believe in its existence.
The flower might close at night, but soon it will be morning
And with a choice of perseverance
She will again lift her eyes.
Sorrow is the hinge-pin, the centrepiece, of a woman's life.
It ties her to those around her with a triple woven tread.
Its end is what grounds her, like an anchor in a storm.
She has seen this before.
She knows: in time, a gleam will arise out of the bloodied mess of broken souls.
She stands
It’s a choice
She knows
And with love, She chooses to throw her heart back into the fray
In order to touch the child, seeing darkness for the first time,
The man waylaid and pushed to destruction,
The women abused night after night,
The running family with bombs sounding still in their ears,
And the quiet grief of a boy who has nothing left to give.
This is why we come to their feet.
This is why we trust them with our love.
Their eyes hold a well of sorrow and a smile of peace.
We know they can hold more,
and still will choose to look up from the dark to the sun.
Don’t forget their sorrow,
don’t rush on into life without their hands
They have lived your future pain.
Young women, those just tasting the start of truth,
Do not be afraid.
Every warrior has her story.
Yes, you too will have yours.
But a battered heart is not a broken life.
It is only a woman more ready to love
Well,
Wisely, and
Always.
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Thursday, May 9, 2019
Let's Dance Again
You know that moment when you are smiling so much, your face starts to ache just a bit?
I felt the ache in my cheeks the other night. I sat, smiled, and watched them with deep joy.
How many were they? Thirty? Forty kiddos? Up on stage... standing in-front of a room of 250---some proud parents, aunties and uncles, and many they would not know. Most of the audience friendly strangers. These kids of all ages were singing and dancing with all their might! They sang song after song about Jesus--- His love and grace, His faithfulness and goodness. Loud voices. Full attention. They sang out with their whole hearts. They gave it their all.
Each song had movements. Each child did the movements with their "stamp"---their personality. Some made quiet, small movements. Some kiddos made exaggerated and beautifully flamboyant moves. Some had hands, legs, faces all in sync. They were perfectly orchestrated with the music. You might say these were "on fleek"! Others---little ones and bigger ones--- hardly managed the choreographed movements at all... they just danced. Smiles. Jumping. Swaying. Shuffling their little feet.
They performed with joy and freedom and so much fun! It was pure delight to behold.
While I watched, I had a recurring thought which became a prayer: When do we loose this? When did we loose this, Lord?
When does this dancing, jumping, laughing, smiling, singing get lost? Why don't we do this anymore when we sing of You?
I began to pray these questions... When did I loose this unhindered joy in moving my body and singing songs for you? What hinders me in worshiping You like this, Lord?
As I watched and prayed, everything in me wanted to jump on stage and sing along. Dance along. I wanted to join them!
I know the stories that many of these kids walk. I am aware of pain in their journey. I know they don't live perfect lives, or in perfect families. But, still... still... this night they brought their whole bodies, hearts, and minds on stage and performed with exuberance.
Most faces in the crowd smiled. Even the older teenagers--- this freedom already lost for most of them--- sat and watched with cheek-aching grins.
Joy begets joy. Worship begets worship!
Father, I want some of it back! What I lost... whenever it was... I want to know this childlike faith and purity again. I want to worship You with my whole body, my whole heart, and all of me. Teach me to join them in song. Today... and moving forward. "Let everything that has breath praise the Lord" (Psalm 150:6).
"They should praise Him with dancing, they should praise Him with tambourines and harps!" (Psalm 149:3)
I felt the ache in my cheeks the other night. I sat, smiled, and watched them with deep joy.
How many were they? Thirty? Forty kiddos? Up on stage... standing in-front of a room of 250---some proud parents, aunties and uncles, and many they would not know. Most of the audience friendly strangers. These kids of all ages were singing and dancing with all their might! They sang song after song about Jesus--- His love and grace, His faithfulness and goodness. Loud voices. Full attention. They sang out with their whole hearts. They gave it their all.
Each song had movements. Each child did the movements with their "stamp"---their personality. Some made quiet, small movements. Some kiddos made exaggerated and beautifully flamboyant moves. Some had hands, legs, faces all in sync. They were perfectly orchestrated with the music. You might say these were "on fleek"! Others---little ones and bigger ones--- hardly managed the choreographed movements at all... they just danced. Smiles. Jumping. Swaying. Shuffling their little feet.
They performed with joy and freedom and so much fun! It was pure delight to behold.
While I watched, I had a recurring thought which became a prayer: When do we loose this? When did we loose this, Lord?
When does this dancing, jumping, laughing, smiling, singing get lost? Why don't we do this anymore when we sing of You?
I began to pray these questions... When did I loose this unhindered joy in moving my body and singing songs for you? What hinders me in worshiping You like this, Lord?
As I watched and prayed, everything in me wanted to jump on stage and sing along. Dance along. I wanted to join them!
I know the stories that many of these kids walk. I am aware of pain in their journey. I know they don't live perfect lives, or in perfect families. But, still... still... this night they brought their whole bodies, hearts, and minds on stage and performed with exuberance.
Most faces in the crowd smiled. Even the older teenagers--- this freedom already lost for most of them--- sat and watched with cheek-aching grins.
Joy begets joy. Worship begets worship!
Father, I want some of it back! What I lost... whenever it was... I want to know this childlike faith and purity again. I want to worship You with my whole body, my whole heart, and all of me. Teach me to join them in song. Today... and moving forward. "Let everything that has breath praise the Lord" (Psalm 150:6).
"They should praise Him with dancing, they should praise Him with tambourines and harps!" (Psalm 149:3)
Friday, May 3, 2019
Sad is Okay, Too
All of me wants you to know, "It's really okay to be sad." I see it and I want you to express it. Please don't hide it from me.
You really don't have to tell me "it's good". I know. You know. We both know. Of course, it will all be fine, it is good and God is good. I know that you know this. We both know this!
Instead, please, friend, just feel the sadness and the pain. Can you let yourself acknowledge the suffering and the difficulty that is real---the difficulty of the now?
Tears come. They well up and want to spill out. I see them. You feel them. I know you do. I see your 'fight' turn on. As tears begin to spill out of your eyes, I watch your embarrassment. Is it shame? You wipe your eyes, you press your fingers over your nose, you push, you wipe, you press, you apologize... everything in you is trying to hold back the tsunami of tears. The sadness is real.
Please, can you just let yourself have a moment? Can you let yourself have an hour, a day... a month... and acknowledge that this hurts?
Why do we judge ourselves and our feelings? We all do it.
God-given gifts---feelings. Our feelings are not for judging--- they just are. Feelings--- all of them---just are. They are data points. Why must we put them into a box. Negative feelings vs. positive feelings. Bad vs. good. Why don't we just let them be a fact, for a moment? I have blond hair and green eyes. I am 5 foot 6 inches. Facts.
I am sad. I am angry. I hurt right now. I am scared. Facts, just the same.
You speak too soon, I think, of the "good" or of the "truth"--- making every effort to make yourself "okay", or trying to make sure I am "okay" watching your pain. I am okay. And, sadness is okay, too? Oh, how we all want to escape the pain, run away from the hard... or, at least, make you think something else of me.
I see it friend. Please let the sadness have it's say. I promise we will lean into the good a bit later. We will rehearse truth further on... I promise.
Happy and sad can live in the same place, at the same time. But, I see the pain now. I see it in your eyes. I welcome it.
Would you trust me with the tears?
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